Thanks to Tom Hiller for suggesting this one!
I probably shook more hands during my two years in Togo than I will for
the rest of my life. When you entered a room, you shook everybody's hands.
When you left, you shook everybody's hands. Little children would run up
to you on the street with their hands outstretched and a gleeful grin in
anticipation of a handshake, and at least for your first few weeks in the
country you would oblige them... they made you feel like the U.S. ambassador.
I must confess I never mastered the snap handshake that the
Togolese were so fond of, so that when one of them tried to shake my hands
in such a manner, I would wind up giving what must have seemed to them the
equivalent of a cold fish handshake in this country. (I'm not
quite sure, but I think there's some correlation between a volunteer's ability
to do the snap handshake and his or her daily BB intake.)
The handshake habit was an easy one to pick up when you arrived in Togo,
but when you returned to the U.S., it was a tough one to, well, shake. Your
optometrist probably thought it was weird enough when you shook his hand
when you went in for your appointment, but when you shook his hand when
you left he definitely put you in the nutcase category. Tom Hiller describes
a situation we probably all can too easily identify with: the startled look
he got from a busdriver in the U.S. when Tom reached out to shake his hand
before asking for directions!
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