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2007.02.12: February 12, 2007: Headlines: COS - Romania: Blogs - Romania: Early Termination: Personal Web Site: Peace Corps Volunteer an American Vagabond writes: Most Americans don’t ever leave their comfort zone; and for my friend, Wisconsin is the border of hers.
Peace Corps Volunteer an American Vagabond writes: Most Americans don’t ever leave their comfort zone; and for my friend, Wisconsin is the border of hers.
Last night I almost lost it. A friend who moved to Wisconsin was visiting Ellie and I talked to her for a bit. I said that a friend of mine here, a PCV, was quitting the Peace Corps and moving back to Wisconsin. She laughed and jokingly asked why, implying that Wisconsin wasn’t a great place to live. I almost blew a fuse.
Peace Corps Volunteer an American Vagabond writes: Most Americans don’t ever leave their comfort zone; and for my friend, Wisconsin is the border of hers.
Date: 2007-02-12 15:01
Subject: Not talking to family is weird for me.
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Last night I almost lost it. A friend who moved to Wisconsin was visiting Ellie and I talked to her for a bit. I said that a friend of mine here, a PCV, was quitting the Peace Corps and moving back to Wisconsin. She laughed and jokingly asked why, implying that Wisconsin wasn’t a great place to live. I almost blew a fuse.
Why? Because he’s working in a school system where cheating and bribing is so common he’s viewed as the abnormal bad guy when he doesn’t allow copying or takes kickbacks. Because he lives in a society where, as a male teacher in a high school, he’s expected to hit his misbehaving students and sleep with the pretty ones to gain their respect. Because he was upset that he got used to seeing 15 year old girls wearing tight, revealing clothing and too much make-up in hopes of finding a boyfriend who will be their sugar daddy. Because he lives in a culture where girls get married at 18 and then spend the rest of their lives in a kitchen, taking orders from a man who is probably cheating on her-but the priest knows so it’s ok. Because he can’t walk down the street, holding his girlfriend’s hand, without someone grabbing her ass and winking at him at the same time. Because it’s more “decent” to starve a stray cat or dog than it is to euthanize or neuter them because that’s God’s will. Because in this society, so much emphasis is placed on material things that children are being raised by older siblings or grandparents while their parents are off in Italy, Spain, Austria or Greece because they can make more money working at a minimum-wage job there than getting a career here, and you need money to buy a new computer. Or maybe it’s because he was expected to live, work and speak in a language that he really doesn’t understand. Gee, I really don’t know; why would Phil want to go back to Wisconsin? He must be weird.
I obviously didn’t say all that to her; she was just joking. She couldn’t know how things are outside of Michigan, Wisconsin and the Canadian border. Most Americans don’t ever leave their comfort zone; and for my friend, Wisconsin is the border of hers.
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