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PCV Ali in Africa writes: I’m having fun making Guinean men flustered and uncomfortable

PCV Ali in Africa writes:  I’m having fun making Guinean men flustered and uncomfortable

It gets really tiring to deal with sometimes. I also find myself taking up quite an attitude with any man who so much as says hi to me, but I’m enjoying being feisty with Guinean men. When my host mom’s son (age 36) told me he wanted to marry an American, insinuating me, I told him “me too. I want to marry an American, too.” Apparently this wasn’t the response he was expecting. As Ben once told me, Guinean men aren’t sure what to do with educated, independent women, so I’m having fun making them flustered and uncomfortable.


PCV Ali in Africa writes: I’m having fun making Guinean men flustered and uncomfortable

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December 23, 2008


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Men in Guinea are very forward. More than one person in Ashley’s village asked her to give me to them (as a wife — because women are property more than anything else here). Last week Ben’s best friend at site told him, “Il faut me donner Assiatou” (you must give me Assiatou, which is my Guinean name). Ben’s friend wanted to do a trade — he’d give Ben one of his sisters (a 14-year-old), and Ben would give him me. Notice how neither I nor this guy’s sister were at all involved in this negotiation. Lovely. It gets really tiring to deal with sometimes. I also find myself taking up quite an attitude with any man who so much as says hi to me, but I’m enjoying being feisty with Guinean men. When my host mom’s son (age 36) told me he wanted to marry an American, insinuating me, I told him “me too. I want to marry an American, too.” Apparently this wasn’t the response he was expecting. As Ben once told me, Guinean men aren’t sure what to do with educated, independent women, so I’m having fun making them flustered and uncomfortable.




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